First and foremost, remember that as you train and progress, so do your sparring partners. It is important to know that your game is developing with your partner's game and will eventually become predictable. By realizing you are growing both individually and together, you will begin to understand why you may feel as though you are running in place. When you take a step back from the details and look at the larger picture, you can begin to see why certain plateaus may exist.
Along with progressing with your training partners, inconsistency can also lead to lack of progression. The number one factor of why you are not getting better is the lack of time put in on the mat. Now everyone has different schedules, priorities, and limitations, but it's not necessarily the total amount of time you spend on the mats, but how you focus your energy during the time you do have to train. This means that you are training for a specific purpose with an end goal in mind. When you change your focus toward goal-oriented training, you'll end up speeding up you progress in the long run.
Now the hardest problems to deal with are the many mental blocks that keep your jiu jitsu progression virtually stagnant. They say that: 'You are your only opponent' and that the main goal is to 'Be better today than you were yesterday,' but what does that really mean? Basically, this means that you are learning from your mistakes and experiences to become a more well-rounded individual, on and off the mats. Now it may take awhile to understand how to do a move or be comfortable enough to perform a specific movement, but it's important to see why each detail is necessary to complete the function. Indulging yourself in conceptual understanding of why certain moves work can help you as you adapt to any situation while you roll. The mechanics of why an arm bar will help you find the right time to attempt the submission and the way an opponent normally reacts to a hip bump sweep can give you the necessary response time to switch to a guillotine or triangle choke. The more you understand the why, the easier it is to answer the when, why, and how.
Since these main issues have been addressed, you can now start to set goals to advance your game. Depending on your rank, what you deem to be important will more than likely change. At white belt and blue belt, you may be more focused on getting submissions and learn every technique you possibly can. As a brown or black belt you may find more interest in taking a specific move and refining it for months. Writing what you plan to do, why you plan to do it, and how you plan to go about doing it will help lay the building blocks of setting your mindset for the allotted time chosen to complete your goals. A good practice for entry keeping is using a jiu jitsu journal to list all your techniques, concepts, movements, goals, rants, and/or achievements. Bringing this journal with you wherever you go can help remind you of overflow information and what you are trying to work on to ensure you don't stray too far off the path. A journal doesn't have to be a fancy leather bound book or one that is jiu jitsu 'certified.' The main idea is to keep written notes to look back on, so whether it's logged into your cell phone or written on a napkin in your pocket, having your notes with you is very important.
Since you now have an idea of where to put your goals and thoughts, we will talk about some examples of setting a goal within a reasonable time frame. Start off by analyzing your current game and honing in on where it is lacking. Let's say for example you work really well in mount but you always seems to be on your back playing guard. It may be obvious that you need to work on your takedowns to start in a more dominant position or to work on your sweeps to reverse the disadvantage. For the beginner, the solution should be broad and more concise for a more experienced player. Simply put, a beginner should focus on working takedowns and sweeps as a whole, whereas a more experienced practitioner could be focusing on a specific takedown/sweep with all the variables that could pop up within a sparring session. Picking a time frame on how long you should work on this goal is important as well. If you don't spend enough time, you could miss out on the benefits of move specific training. For starters, try to set this type of training for at least a couple week if not a month minimum because it will give you a better chance to get in some solid repetitions.
Another example of setting a goal could be more on the long-term spectrum of wanting to eventually get your black belt. If you give yourself a reasonably realistic end date and ask yourself how you are going to arrive at that destination, the goal is feasible. Putting in the time on the mats is the main factor but whether you are competing hardcore, traveling for seminars/camps/open mats, or simply attending all the classes you can at your home gym, the mat time will speak for itself. Long-term goals take short-term goals and persistence. Without hitting these checkpoints along the way, it will become a little less obvious that you are making forward progress.
Ensuring that you are training with an active mind is crucial for jiu jitsu growth. By setting goals and staying persistent, plateaus will be broken and progress will be made. Organizing your short and long term goals into a jiu jitsu journal helps to keep you on track to achieve successful results. Remember that everyone experiences these roadblocks along their jiu jitsu journeys but they don't have to be the reason you give up. Pushing through the tough times will create the most beautiful opportunities in the long run. Thinking back to when we first started jiu jitsu and were getting smothered/tapped left and right, the last thing on your mind was to give up. You took the lessons and took the time to understand why the situations were happening to you and little by little you would add new movements to survive and defend. Eventually this led to escaping or preventing a scenario from occurring and the opportunities to reverse roles started to become more apparent.
Water and Electricity are both similar in the sense that they both take the path of least resistance. If there is something in their path, they don't expend the energy to smash through the blockage. They choose to flow around and continue the journey down the stream or through the circuit. Apply this concept to your own jiu jitsu and life, when something is keeping you from moving forward, flow around the block. Set a destination but let the current guide you on your journey. Jiu jitsu is a complicated art form but the benefits are well worth the struggle. As my favorite quote from Dean Lister goes: "It's simple, but not easy."

