Reflection is a huge part of growth, especially in the martial arts realm. By taking the time to look back where you started and see how far you have come is a very empowering feeling. When you apply the same mindset to a recent class or match, you can maximize your ability to grow. Also, when you start to do this it opens up more planning opportunities and ways to approach future classes and matches.
I am a big advocate for setting goals, as you may have heard
before, but more specifically writing things down. This usually happens in the
form of a list, but the whole idea behind it is to force myself to gather my
thoughts and put them in a specific location. In essence I am brainstorming for
the past, present, and future to free up space in my mind. It can get pretty
cluttered with all these ideas floating around, so it is helpful to clear my
head in this fashion.
Now tailoring this list or ideas to provide a benefit to
future training can be pretty simple… First off, ask yourself what happened in
the class or match? How did you feel physically, mentally, and emotionally that
day? What weaknesses did you spot and what strengths did you have? Can you
implement a change for next time?
You know yourself best. When you take an honest look into
the mirror, you will be able to figure out what you have been doing and have
not been doing. Sometimes you need some external feedback; whether the feedback
is from a peer/coach or video, use it to shine light to the problems and
improve. Dwelling on a loss or losses will not solve your problems, it is your
responsibility to do that part!
As for the class setting, when it comes to a plateau in
improvement take a hard look at your focus and goals. Are you just showing up
going through the motions? Do you skimp out on drilling or sit rounds out when
you should be rolling? What are you doing to supplement your training
(nutrition, conditioning, research, reflection, etc.)? The class is not your
only means of learning, but when you are there you should set yourself up for
success. Try not to show up without a basic plan or you will pay for it.
Improvement starts with you.
I had a buddy that once told me that no one cares about your success as much as you do; so act like it! Taking an active approach to goal setting and planning through reflection is a key component to grow. Having that plan set in place helps set a purpose to your training and same goes for a performance during competition. Try not to turn a blind eye to mistakes; learn from each and every one! Being self-critical is important for improvement, but do not be afraid in easing off every now and again. At the end of the day you want to enjoy doing what you love, so finding a balance in discipline will be crucial to maintaining happiness. Keep up with the highs and lows, and you will be able to reap what you sow before your know it!



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